Saturday, April 26, 2008

How mobile phones have changed our lives!

I many a times wonder how our lives have changed and how they would be without mobile phones. Along these lines, some things which crossed my mind one afternoon during a convex optimization class:


  • When friends decide to meet at some place, say a railway station such as CST at a particular time. These days I find it hard to imagine meeting the friend before making a couple of calls after reaching the place. Before I had a cell phone, how did I manage such things? I can't really seem to recollect!

  • About remembering phone numbers of friends, relatives, even our own home number for that matter. A few years back, these used to at the tip of our fingers, now I hardly seem to know any numbers. Is it convenience, or a decreased use of our mental faculties - the very thing which separate us from other creatures?!

  • In some cases, it has allowed one to have a more private life, and allows to have private conversations. I am not particularly a fan of this whole privacy thing, and when required, there were ways to do it even in the olden days. Has this ease of maintaining privacy and secrecy, even from the people very close to us helped us, or is it really a harm without us realizing it?

  • It is one of the major disturbing factors these days. Many times now it is so good to imagine a world w/o them. Isn't it irritating to find your evening walk companions talking over mobile phones for most of the time and you are left walking along!? I feel sometimes when I do the same, mostly unintentionally, how bad the other people would have felt about it. Are we really that busy to not have time for people who are with us personally at a particular time, and that we have to talk over the phone just then?

  • We have started thinking of e-communication as a suitable and "convenient" alternative of personal meetings. Is it even close to personal interactions, in terms of quality? Does all this lead to our distancing from the real world and live our lives more "virtually"?

  • In some ways, it has also lead to intrusion of a person's happy life. In present day, I pity my young friends who would be in their primary/secondary school and happily playing cricket on a lazy Sunday morning. I remember exceeding my reported time at home by at least a couple of hours everytime I played this way. These guys would be facing some 4-5 calls from home in the same time, asking them to hurry up. What a shame!

  • Imagine yourself walking hand-in-hand with your b/g f and getting those painful calls from home and you having to ditch them or probably lie to the person on the other side of the phone about your whereabouts. Wouldn't you wish you were living in 2002 where you couldn't be contacted so easily?



Some of these may be quite cynical and not really as bad as I have put them/I feel they are. But at times, these modern techno gadgets do put me off and I wish they were never there in the first place.

Thought for the day

"If you love something but choose not to do it professionally, it's not a waste. Because, you know, you still have it. You have it forever."

Read this statement made by someone. Reported in this article in Washington Post. The article is amazingly written and I share a lot of common thoughts with the author there.

Worth a read. Thanks Sudeep for recommending it :)

I have thought of writing about pros and cons of technology and how it is killing us at times. But somehow have never quite come to writing it in detail. This article puts these thoughts and much more into words in an amazing fashion. Quite long, but well worth it!

Friday, April 18, 2008

Friends, Valfi, Senti and a quote!

We have just been through the valfi season and as we are passing out, most of are quite senti and realize we would miss the company of friends that we had for the last 4 years. Just found a quote somewhere today and thought I might as well put it here - I hardly write anything on the blog anyway.

"Your absence should be long enough that a person misses you, but it should not be so long that the person learns to live without you."

At this juncture, when we are parting with good old friends, could be something worth keeping in mind :)